I just wanted to contribute with my story.
I’m 37 and when traveling in romania I saw a clinic where i could do a cheap vasectomy and went for it (i wanted it since several years), from all the info i gathered on the internet, it was an extremely safe procedure.
Despiste the surgeon almost not speaking any english and we could barely communicate (he was in his 60´s), I went for it. I drawed a picture of what i wanted: open ended with fascial interposition.
In the day of the surgery (17th May 2021) first he removed 2 lipomas i had, one in the back and another in the belly, under local anesthesia, and then he went to the pubic area and made a first incision, and i told him i was feeling everything, then they put me to sleep, next thing i know…
I woke up from a general anethesia and he had performed the vasectomy with two 3 cms incision on the pubic bone, the testicles were left untouched.
I felt kind of betrayed because no one said i would have a general anesthesia (was painful to recover from it) and didnt even know at that time that a vasectomy could be performed in this way.
the whole internet only has one article about it
I was expecting a normal scrotal vasectomy…
I asked him if there was a possibility of vasectomy failure (recanalization) and he said thats impossible because he removed 3 cms of each vas. And as I understood he ligated the vas, so no open ended…
The good side of this was that the post op went really well and easy since the testicles were not touched.
My concern now is that i have been realizing since i started to wear boxers again my scrotum or at least one of my testicles is hanging lower and it goes towards inside my legs and i cant walk properly, also its harder to seat without adjusting it everytime.
Also the ejaculations are not normal anymore: first a sprinkle of watery fluid and after it only then the gelatinous fluid slowly arises. The semen seems is not properly mixed like before.
And the orgasm seems not so deep or intense and does not make me so tired and knocked out like before. i feel like some pressure in the testicles that is not released, its like it retains my sperm there and i feel pressure to my prostate and anus, and eventough i ejaculate the orgasm experience is not complete or worry free. its a diferent experience for worst.
So for this 3 reasons:
1-weird sperm and weird ejaculation
3-low hanging testicles disturbing walking/seating
I was contemplating reversal, but i am not sure if its even possible due to the fact that my vasectomy had been performed in the pubic area and 3cms of each vas were removed.
So could it be there is not enough vas to be able to connect it back together?
As i understand this would resolve the ejaculate and orgasm problem, but not sure if resolves the low hanging testicles impairing my walking/seating?
Im on my 7 week now, no pains.
I am single and no one knows i did this.
I tough i was doing something good for myself, protecting me from accidental pregnancies etc but now i am disappointed and regret it.
And has the time passes and i dont see it getting better its starting to affect me psychologically
If someone can refer me some doctors anywhere in europe i woudl be grateful.
Thank you for all your contribute here.