Hi Guys, been lurking for a while but not posted anything until today. It’s starting to get the better of me now and making me quite upset.
I had my no scalpel Vasectomy last august at age 30.
I was recovering well and then on day 9 had major pain (so bad I was on the floor crying and didn’t know what to do).
Rested for a few days again and it subsided ish.
Up to that point hadn’t ejaculated and since the op I have a constant dull ache in one side and occasionally is really quite painful I’m getting used to it.
However, more worrying to me while I can ‘mechanically’ complete the act of intercourse I don’t actually feel it (at all). I’ve seen other posts on here with similar subjects but not seen much encouraging feedback.
Did mention it to my wife, but she’s since stopped asking me about it and don’t really want to bring it up again… I do suffer with depression but am currently doing alright and am unmedicated.
Does anybody have anything to say on this or should I just consider going back to the doctor to be fobbed off again…?
Sorry this probably doesn’t read very well, but would appreciate any feedback that may or may not help me move forward.