Yeah, well, live and learn right. Although the whole having a time machine blah blah blah… Oh well.
I am not getting a reversal for multiple reasons. Here’s the list:
-time for recovery. I can’t be down that long due to work and travel for work.
-lack of help at home. i can’t cause the wife, she won’t do shit unless she gets massively pissed off and then a fucking nightmare. she doesn’t do it well and i end up having to redo things. which just pisses her off more and me more which causes me pain. I tried really hard to not do anything right after my vas cause i didn’t want to fuck anything up. That was a nightmare-LONG stories there!
-money. The wife refuses to spend it. Insurance already said no even with the Clinic intervening. And the wife refuses to incur more debt. She’s an accountant so not only being Type A, she’s also a nut about money due to her job. And she refuses to set money aside for this as “i am fine. clearly it isn’t that bad cause you haven’t said anything to me about it. you must be fine now” Uh…NOPE! I just don’t say anything cause it’s pointless talking to someone who doesn’t give a shit!
Yeah, I know…sounds like dumb reasons for not getting it done. But with lack of support, it’s kind of tough to get it done. My wife, she wasn’t there to drive me home after my vas(i drove) so I have no reason to think she’d be there to help me after this.