First off let me say I feel for you. I hate what you all are going through. Women who want their man snipped should be willing to tie their tubes. It’s simply not fair for a man! Nor is it ethically sound.
My husband got a vasectomy in 2019, against my wishes and he has not been the same! He just seems weak down there. I noticed the first time we were together after the cut. I spoke out about it but we just thought he might still be recovering from surgery. Nope! What he was never came back. He was a fire hose and now he is a garden hose. He just seems soft and I used to feel his ejaculations inside of me, now I feel nothing. He also used to shoot his load out with force and now it’s just, just, like flows out. I’ve been told it is in my head and I’m not right that the vasectomy changed him. I’m so frustrated because I told him not to get it in the first place! Now I’m the one suffering for a year and a half. We’ve been married for 13 years with five kids, I can tell you he is not the same! Three weeks ago he got a reversal hoping to fix all these issues, praying they will. He finally admitted he was in-fact different after the snip, he had been denying it. Has anyone else experienced this? He has no pain but just soft and weak.