Hi all, I truly appreciate everyone who has posted here and shared their stories.
I had the snip just under two years ago. Like many here, my wife pressured me into the procedure using all of the arguments that you would expect.
Having now been in pain for roughly two years, my resentment toward her is growing deeper and deeper. How do you all manage the resentment? Or is it just me? I do not want to destroy my marriage.
I realize that I made this “choice” and nobody held a gun to my head, but i do feel that my concerns were brushed under the rug and completely ignored. I also flat out refused, but she persisted.
I think if men put similar pressure on their wives to get a tubal ligation that ended in chronic pain they would be considered the anti christ.
Thanks for any advice,