Yep, I’ve had that. At 3 weeks out it felt like my groin was on fire. It was explained to me that it was inflammation running along the nerve roots, although I’m not 100% convinced that was the case. You should probably be taking some anti-inflammatories. Ibuprofen and Naproxen are OTC, but the doc could order you something stronger like Meloxicam or Celebrex. It very well could be nerve damage too. There are some meds, like Gabapentin, Lyrica and Elavil, that are useful for that, but they are all prescription. Definitely try some conservative methods first, like meds, pelvic floor PT, and just rest. I wouldn’t jump into anything surgically, as it can make it worse.If you are not happy with your doc, find a new one, who is willing to help. Their is clear research that many men have issues, so don’t let them tell you otherwise. However, they are right that most men get better with time, so hopefully you will too. Good luck.