I second this for sure.
@Fire, if I had anything else to reinforce about what I said earlier, it would be, take your time with this. Get all your ducks in a row, collect as much data about yourself before you make another surgical move should you choose to do so. Sounds like you just learned another hard lesson far as the hemoclips, and your reversal. Not all reversals are created equally, and that's on many levels. I hate to see you learn the hard way a third time.