@Thissucks, I too admire your courage. Your story is literally a first to me far as how things seem to be going for you post bilateral removal.
The biggest difference between you and many unsuccessful stories I know of is you never had de-nervation. I personally think that was a wise move.
If your testicle were destroyed by vasectomy to the point that you describe, I’m not seeing where you had any other realistic options.
All this talk about a man not being a man, etc, etc, you’ve still got balls far as I’m concerned.