After Vasectomy I was fine for a few months but that is when I started getting pain from congestion. Did the normal visits back to the doctor and was given antibiotics which did not help. For the most part in my daily activity I am not in pain and I can live with the pain I have but it will probably also take a toll on my relationship.
I went from having sex often to just not having sex anymore. I went for the vasectomy because I already had 3 kids and I am 44 and at this stage in my life the pull out method was getting too risky so since others I know had them with no issues it seemed like a no brainer to put myself and my wife at ease and figured it would take away some of the stress we had during sex and at first it did just that before the pain started months later.
In any case now we have no sex and when we try its painful and after ejaculation I have pain afterwards and for a few days.
I read the stories of several that got reversals and some got better and some got even worse. I am also self employed and I cant be out of work for weeks which seems to be the recovery period.
Has anyone that had congestion get relief over time on its own? Has anyone converted to a open ended to allow the sperm to flow and did that help?
Just hoping there is hope without surgery.